学做人...(4)

静坐常思己过

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闲谈莫论人非

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学做人...(3)

交友

Tips on maintaining friendships

(抄自theStar newspaper 26.4.2009)

1. Have no conditions or strings attached in your friendship.

2. Be honest and trustworthy.

3. Be reliable and a good listener.

4. Smile and make eye contact during a conversation.

5. Show interest in the well-being of your friend and offer companionship.

6. Share challenges and joy and offer a shoulder to lean on when life is difficult.

7. Forgive each other as mistakes are bound to happen.

8. Do not hold grudges as they can ruin friendships.

9. Invest time and energy in your friendship and make it a commitment.

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好书共赏

这是一本210面的小书, 叙述作者和他的老教授, 在后者的病床和临终前的交谈

整个对话 探讨了人生、生命的真谛

能启发读者对生命的领悟

值得一读。

兹抄录一些片段：

"People haven't found meaning in their lives, so that they're running all the time looking for it. They think the next car, the next house, the next job. Then they find those things are empty, too, and they keep running."

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"Learn to detach. Don't cling to things, because everything is impermanent."

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"Everyone knows they're going to die, but nobody believes it. If we did, we would do things differently."

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"When you learn how to die, you learn how to live."

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"It's natural to die. The fact that we make such a big hullabaloo over it is all because we don't see ourselves as part of nature. We think because we're human we're something above nature. We're not. Everything that gets born, dies."

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老马要吃回头草

还在想什么？“乖乖坐在家里吧，
因为人民已经不喜欢你了”
“我也不喜欢你，
因为你是种族主义者”
－ 那只狸

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学做人...(2)

Keep your DISTANCE

学做人...(1)

Just BREATHE

... bring the Mind back to the PRESENT

境界

人在不同的年龄

追求不同的境界

再补选

天下乌鸦一般黑

好书介绍

(1) THE POWER OF NOW

(2) A NEW EARTH

作者 － Eckhart Tolle 是一名心灵导师，不倾向任何宗教或信仰。

网站 － www.eckharttolle.com

第一本 “当下的力量” 已被翻译成32种语文。

读这两本 “心灵之书”，能帮助我们“找到自己”，活得更有意义。

顺便摘录一段如下：
"In today's rush we all think too much, seek too much, want too much and forget about the joy of just being. We worry about what people think of us, we compare ourselves with our friends, family and neighbours, and deep down we worry we're not 'good enough'."

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新内阁

无惊无喜！
该丢的，丢了
该溜的，已溜了
不该留的，也留下了。

窗外车声如故
太阳如以往一样西沉...
满镇燕儿照样飞。

彩虹

是不是很久没有看见彩虹了?

(门前摄)

有没有感觉得天气越来越热?

有没有发现雨量越来越少? 下雨没季没节?

有没有感觉得大地开始生病了?

无始无终

<<古人不见今时月

今月曾经照古人>>

宇宙无始无终 无边无际

大自然 奥妙神奇

莫非这就是

人类有史以来

所敬拜的

神明

上苍

上帝

老天爷

................?

我们的新首相

... 希望他贯彻全民马来西亚(One Malaysia)概念

再会！

我走了
你保重
*
你放心
我会照顾全马来西亚人

田园之歌

首相说，他退休后，将回去耕农。

我们祝福拉伯，但愿他俩
过着快乐的田园生活。

田园之歌：

看雨后青天白云飘

山坳鸟啼晓转

看陌上村姑除野草

嘴边带着笑自

看园里菜花泛金潮

枝头蝉声噪音

看田里老农割早稻

挥汗捶着腰魁

* 我愿长留在农村的怀抱

这里绝没有都市的烦扰

大树下乘凉把扇摇

堤上牛睡觉

看旷野牧童群嬉闹

炊烟绕树梢

*repeat

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